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I don’t know anything about ballet, but I feel like a ballerina in this outfit. Missed that wagon as a little girl. So flash forward 30 years later, I’m living out my childhood dream with a feeble attempt as posing like one. EPIC FAIL. It’s because I don’t have a tu-tu, right? How about a gold star for the bun on my head?
I do love to dance. The Hubs and I bust a move–like all-the-time. It’s no wonder that our son has happy feet, too. That’s him dancin’ in the streets. Truthfully, he was born with natural rhythm. Turn the music on and he’s bouncing to the beat. Give him an instrument and he’s making his own beats. I hope he never loses this musical ability. It’s wonderful.
Ballet makes me think of Swan Lake or more recently The Black Swan (yikes, trippy, psychological thriller), which led me to the title of this post: Ugly Duckling. I love this children’s tale of triumph of the underdog or underduck. (Actually, did you know that a baby swan is called a cygnet (sig-nit). But an undercygnet doesn’t work well here). I was painfully awkward, and shy as a young child up until college. Never felt like I was pretty or smart enough and definitely was not part of the cool crowd.
Through many life lessons, which I will spare the stories in this post, I’ve learned to love who I am. This belief in self is what makes a person beautiful. It will take one far–across town for a graduation B-B-Q. I’m proud to announce that the Husband has finally finished Architecture school. It been an intense, five years of long nights, hard work and many stress-induced, stupid arguments, but he’s fulfilled a life-long dream. So happy for you, Baby! Now stop being a bum and get a J.O.B.
I switched out of the skirt (from work) to these 50′s inspired, polka-dotted shorts and flat sandals (to play) for the grad party. A great way to start the weekend! Have a lovely one, friends.






So happy for your hubby, I always think going back to school one day to learn something, but always has some excuse that I can’t do that, I know it will be hard and will scarify many things, like TV at night, weekend with the family. etc…So I have to say I really admire people who can make it to the end!!! cheers!!!
Your strips and polka dots mix and match very lovely, but I have to say your little boy get all my attention , haha,,,he is too cute for word!!!!
Haha… dang, maybe I should remove his dancing photo. Com’on aren’t you here to look at pictures of me and my outfits?! Hee-hee. Thanks for the kind wishes. I can’t even begin to express how happy I am that he done. Hopefully he’ll be able to find a job. Going back to school is a challenge (I did it 5 years ago), but if you’re able to study and not work, I recommend it. My husband supported us, when I went back and then I did the same for him. It really made a huge difference. And it’s never too late! You can do it, if you try hard. (I’m proof, my husband is proof). That is all.
Awesome news for your husband (and family too!) Fingers crossed that the perfect job comes soon!
I’m digging those polka dot shorts! Very adorable…perfect party outfit!
Thanks, April! We’re pretty optimistic about job prospects, it’s a good time for new graduates in the Architecture field, as firms are still recovering from the slow economy. (The dotted shorts are going to be great for summer, they’re cotton, light weight, breathable).
Love love love both these outfits. Super cute and very inspiring. I love your style! Glad I stumbled across your blog!
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Thank you so much for the really kind words. It gets me excited to know that other people find my site useful and feel motivated to continue.
Love the shorts, and I love the combination of polka dots and stripes!
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Thank you! Love stripes and dots… why not wear ‘em together? I tried to post a couple comments on your site, but was unable to. I’ve been finding this a problem to do with blogs on blogger. (If anyone know how to get around this, I’d love to know as it’s hindered my ability to leave comments)!
I love the polka dot and stripes combo. Looks great together!
PS: The moving picture of your son is ADORABLE. Love it!
Thanks, Yeri! He’s my life.
This is so lovely!. I love the colors. It’s so well put together. You’re an inspiration for having little ones and looking fabulous. I’ll be keeping you in the blogging rolodex.
Love those shorts
Thanks! I love them. They are lightweight so it’ll be nice during the summer.
I can’t wait to have a kid and then feature their style on my blog! Too cute.
Thanks! Actually… it’s mostly MY style for him. If I were a boy. Which I did wish for a few times when I was child. (Long story, but it has something to do with gender expectations and strict Vietnamese parents). Guess I’m living out my childhood dreams–as an adult woman. Okay. That sounds a little strange. Scratch that. Lately, though, my assertive 2 year old wants to make his own style choices and I will showcase them here. Thanks for the visit, Kelsey!
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